
Some years ago I had in class a
woman who had been a cloistered Dominican Nun for over twenty-five years. In our conversation she told me that for
those twenty-five years her spiritual life consisted in daily Mass, the Divine
Office in choir, her participation in the monastery work of a perpetual rosary
before the Blessed Sacrament (where she spent approximately 2 hours a day and
said about ten rosaries.) She was told
that there was no need for mental prayer beyond that that could be accommodated
by her obligatory rosaries and that there was no time for Lectio Divina. In other words, her entire prayer life was
active prayer, either liturgical or devotional.
She had matured more in the spiritual life, she told me, under a
Cistercian Spiritual Director in the three years since leaving the monastery
than she had in her 25 years inside the cloister. And “if this is what happens to the green
wood, what will happen to the dry?”
For many communities founded in the
19th century a typical prayer life was Mass, the rosary, and the
Little Office of the Blessed Virgin Mary along with assorted litanies and
devotional prayers. Sisters and Brothers
and even priests were told that meditation or mental prayer was unnecessary and
even that it was dangerous. Many of the
newer communities are little better. The
Little Office has been replaced by parts of the Divine Office but there is
still either no training in mental prayer or inadequate time given to it. People are encouraged in some communities to
fill their meditation time with devotional prayers.
Piety is a good thing but it is not
spirituality. “Piety” comes from the Latin word pietas which means the duties that one has towards ones parents,
mentors, elders, and God. In the context
of religion, piety is what we do, led by grace, for God. It is our taking
responsibility (always by grace) for our relationship with God. We initiate and sustain the relationship.
Spirituality, on the other hand, is the relationship that God, in his grace,
works in us. God takes the initiative
and sustains (with our response) the relationship. In piety, we are the principal active agent;
in spirituality God is the initiator. It
is the difference between active and receptive prayer. For the heart that is bent on searching for
God, whether a Religious or a priest or a lay person, piety, in and of itself,
is a dead-end path. Piety can lead one
to genuine spirituality and indeed most great spiritual journeys begin in
piety. But they must mature and the soul
must yield the reins of the spiritual life to God.
Today watching the Carmelite nuns prayerfully sitting
in their choir or going about their roles in the liturgy, or greeting their
guests, or sharing their celebratory dinner with nuns from several other
communities, I was struck by the grace—on both the natural and supernatural
meanings of that word—with which they live.
There was nothing artificial about how they did things, nothing
“nunny.” A low note of celebration
pervaded the prayer and a constant tone of prayer pervaded the
celebration. One could see a certain
depth of meaning, an integration of all the diverse facets of life, that is too
often missing in both the spiritual fuss-budgeting of some of the newer
communities and the tired cynicism of the established groups.
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